My boyfriend basically blames me for any negativities in our relationship.?

My boyfriend and I are both 16, I'm almost 17. I know we are both immature. I just don't know if these are signs of emotional abuse, i just want to know. Everyone makes mistakes..I like him alot and we've been together for a year and i've known him for 4. My parents don't push me to the point where i'm going to shut down, but his mom does. he is so insecure with himself, that he takes it out on me. I take my problems out on him too, but i am not so insecure about myself and i try to explain to him that it's not about him. When i make one wrong move or say one wrong thing he makes it sound like i'm a horrible person and states EV-ER-Y LITTLE THING that i've done wrong. I just don't understand why he has to do that because he makes me feel like i wanna crawl up in a ball and die. I just sit there and listen becaus i know if i try and stick up for myself he'll find something else o make me lok like a bad person and im stuck there listening to him bash on my emotions. Lately i've been stressed with school, and not being able to see him, and family issues that I'm just tired and grouchy at the end of the day and i hurt (by yelling) at everyone close to me, so i try and lock myself in my room. I've told him 2ice about what's bothering me and he tells me that i need to take in consideration about other peoples feelings even if i feel miserable. And if i told him the same thing...we'd just go back to "amanda, blah blah blah, you do this you did that blah blah blah" it's just getting so hard and i dont know waht to do anymore. I like him so much i dont wanna break up with him. I want to know how i could try and talk to him without him yelling and with him undert\standing. I need advice? =[