Would I be considered the minor’s natural or adoptive parent, stepparent, guardian, or custodian, or person?

My wife and I allowed a 16 year old cousin of my wife to come live with us. She was not respecting me so I told my wife I wanted out of the custody filing for her but I wouldn't stop her from getting custody. I removed myself from the court papers before the costody was awarded to my wife. I never even really talked to the girl. Would I still be considered the minor’s natural or adoptive parent, stepparent, guardian, or custodian, or person?